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K-pop Fandom Psychology & The Secret of Obsession

  • Writer: Onley James
    Onley James
  • Oct 1
  • 2 min read

Updated: Oct 23

What happens when you blend K-pop, demon-slaying, and music that hits harder than your first fandom heartbreak? Netflix’s K-Pop Demon Hunters is the answer—a film that took everyone by surprise and became a fandom phenomenon. In this episode of The Feral Fandoms Podcast, we break down the K-pop fandom psychology that fueled its viral success and what authors (and creators) can learn from it.


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Why K-pop Fandom Psychology Makes K-Pop Demon Hunters Work


The Music is a Hook: From the very first song, the emotional impact is undeniable. K-pop is engineered for obsession, one note can trigger nostalgia, joy, or tears.


  • Parasocial Genius: K-pop idol culture perfects the art of making fans feel seen. Features like the “Y/N” (Your Name) Bubble app and direct idol-to-fan communication are textbook k-pop fandom psychology, fans feel personally connected, not just entertained.


  • Universal Outsider Story: Rumi’s journey resonates with anyone who’s ever felt like an outsider, especially queer audiences. This emotional connection is at the core of powerful fandom psychology.


  • Color, Comedy, and Comfort: The movie is a serotonin bomb, bright visuals, comedic timing, and comfort-watch vibes make it endlessly rewatchable, another key to fandom obsession.


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Lessons for Authors: How to Use K-pop Fandom Psychology


  • Create Inside Jokes: Give your community repeatable, quotable moments. Inside jokes are the glue of K-pop fandoms.


  • Build Obsessive Characters: Develop characters with quirks, Pinterest boards, and Q&A sessions—make them feel real and worthy of obsession.


  • Give Fans Something to Fight For: Ship wars, team debates, and “biases” drive engagement and loyalty.


  • Think Beyond the Book: Merch, Easter eggs, and interactive events (Q&As, Discord chats) turn readers into superfans.


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Podcast Extras: Fandom Psychology in Action


  • Netflix cutting a rumored three-hour version (give us the aquarium kissing scene!)


  • Why “My Idol” is both a bop and a metaphor for fandom obsession.


  • How Taylor Swift stole marketing genius from K-pop.


  • Why parasocial relationships aren’t accidents, they’re engineered.


Ready to Build Your Own Fandom?


Want the full breakdown? Listen to Episode 2 of The Feral Fandoms Podcast.Writers, reverse-engineer your own fandom using our Obsession Scrolls and fandom-building resources. Join 700+ writers and readers obsessed with fandoms in our free Discord community.


By understanding and applying K-pop fandom psychology, authors can create stories, characters, and communities that inspire real obsession—and turn readers into lifelong superfans.


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